Monday, February 28, 2011

Singapore

I'll get this one out of the way as I sit here waiting for yet another late night conference call.  One of the bad things about working in a satellite office is that meetings with corporate are always on THEIR schedule, and it is seldom good for mine.  Between the 6 AM meetings to start my day and the 10 PM meetings to finish my day - sometimes with the same people - finding enough time to sleep is difficult.

That's why Singapore came at just the right time.

Per usual, we took the 8:30 flight out of Jakarta.  We arrived at the airport much earlier than normal.  Our new house is closer to the freeway, which cuts about twenty minutes off of our airport commute.  Checked in without a hitch.  Normally I would then obtain a stamp indicating I am allowed to leave the country without paying a $250 departure tax because I have an Indonesian tax ID.  Turns out, that office closes after 7 PM now so I didn't have to show anything!  Interesting concept - pay a tax if you leave before 7 PM.  Are they trying to get people to take later flights?

Saved me a line, so I didn't complain.  Stood on line for immigration and discovered that two different agents were serving my line - SCORE! - so we moved twice as fast.  I hand over our four passports and he asks me where the departure cards are.  I show him the departure cards the immigration agent who processed our multi-entry visa stapled to the passport.  He said he couldn't use those and I needed to fill out new cards for everyone.

UGH!  Back to the ticket counter, time to fill out the forms, back in the immigration line - which by now had split into two lines, one per agent.  Lost my twenty minutes.

We stop so our son can eat dinner and he decides this is the time to go on a hunger strike.  Wouldn't eat a thing.  Not even if I put sugar on it.  Five bucks down the drain.

We arrive at the gate and check in.  The gate agent looks at my wife and says:  "Do you have a doctor's note saying she can travel pregnant?"  I reply:  "No, your website says it isn't necessary under 30 weeks.  Nor did your corporate office when we called to confirm.  She's only five months."  "New policy.  Anything over 3 months needs approval." 

That's when the fight began.

Long story short, we signed a liability waiver and they let us on the plane.  I expected better from Singapore Airlines.

Once we arrived in Singapore, everything went smoothly...except our son started convulsive vomiting shortly after we entered the room and I had to call room service to come and change the sheets.  (That's one way to guarantee they are fresh!)  We all finally crashed around 1 AM.

Our trip to Singapore had two purposes:  see some doctors and find a place to live.  My wife had her medical appointments on Friday morning and we were able to confirm that yes, indeed, we are having another son (which means I only have to save for one wedding!! - notice the use of 'we' and 'I') and that the baby is healthy and, like his siblings, growing on the large end of the average.

After the examination of our incubating son, it was time to tend to our birthed son.  He had a fever, diarrhea and was still, as they say in Singapore, throwing.  Doctor gave him a quick, ten minute look over, told us he had an intestinal issue, and sent us on our way with an antibiotic she didn't want us to use unless he wouldn't drink fluids and a bill for $100.  I guess that's what peace of mind is worth?

The doctor's visits out of the way, we took a tour of three new serviced apartments near Orchard Road.  My favorite was the three bedroom unit walking distance from the metro station.  My wife's favorite was the place we stayed at last time that requires me to take a taxi to work every morning and charged extra for internet and the only sports channel worth watching.  Anyone want to place a bet on where we'll be residing?

We finished Friday with dinner at Muchos, a relatively new Mexican restaurant on Clarke Quay and then watching Shrek 4 back in the hotel room.  I was out by 8 PM - before my daughter.  I finally woke up at 7 AM Saturday morning.  I needed my sleep.

I had my annual physical at 8:30 Saturday morning.  This was the most extensive physical I've ever received and more than any insurance company I've ever been a part of would have approved for me in the US.  I had the traditional bloodwork and urine tests as well as the consultation with a doctor.  That's about standard for my US annual exams.  Then they did a resting EKG, a vision test, a treadmill stress test, a body fat test, ultrasounds of my internal organs, a chest X-ray and a urine flow test.  Three hours later, I was back on the street with instructions to lose weight (15 pounds!) and eat more salt to increase my blood pressure.

Saturday afternoon we did a little shopping and had lunch at Subway.  We finished our stay with dinner at Black Angus and watching Despicable Me for a third time.

The biggest event that happened on this trip?  Our daughter did the whole trip without her beloved blanket, DeeDee.  We made a big deal about this major event in her life and bought her a gift of her choice to celebrate.  She choose a book (that's my girl!), eschewing the option for shoes or a new dress.  She even threw the blanket in the waste basket when we arrived home.  Of course, when we checked on her Sunday night, she obviously had second thoughts.  There she was, at the foot of her bed, holding on to her blanket.  The blanket was not on the bed, though, so she at least made a step in the right direction.

We may make one more trip to Singapore before moving there.  If not, we'll move after our daughter's recital at the end of May and stay there until we have a passport for the new addition (name still under discussion).  We're still looking for someone to stay with us for our duration in Singapore to watch the kids while we deliver child number three.  If you know anyone looking for 8 weeks off near the equator, let me know.

Sunday, February 27, 2011

Big News!

I have a lot to post this week - thoughts on a few political items, our trip to Singapore, some new observations about expats in Asia and travels - and no time to put it all on right now, so check back frequently this week as I'll try to post everything in the next three or four days.

For now, the big news is my game, Wurfeltod, is finally available for sale on iTunes!!!!

Admittedly, it isn't ground breaking.  I don't think it will be the next "Angry Birds", but I do hope it will get 10% of their sales!

Anyway, you can find it here:  http://itunes.apple.com/us/app/wurfeltod/id421620083?mt=8&ls=1 Cost is $0.99.

Sunday, February 20, 2011

Our New House

We're finally moved in!

We're thrilled with our new accommodations.  It's very similar to our house in Arizona, but the yard is smaller and the house is larger.  We moved about one mile from our previous residence so we won't have to learn a new neighborhood.  Many of the places we visit frequently are further away, but some are closer, so it works out okay.  The only bad things are my work commute is farther and our expenses will be higher as we now have to pay for trash removal, security and someone to clean the pool.

It will also be more work, but that's one of the reasons we moved here.  I enjoy doing yardwork, and will now have a yard to work in.  My first day of sweeping leaves resulted in two blisters, so I'm obviously out of practice.  We'll be able to change our own lightbulbs now, too!  Of course, the ceilings are so high I had to buy a ladder so I could reach the bulbs, but at least we get a return to the normalcy of doing somethings for ourselves.

The other big news is we have taken on a pet.  Three pets, actually.  Three tiny turtles of a type I have not yet researched to identify.  I tried to claim that the dozens of toads and two cats constantly roaming our yard were our pets.  She wasn't buying it.  I'm not sure why our daughter decided on turtles, but I'm glad she didn't want a horse.  Maybe that happens when she's older.

Below are the pictures of our new house.

 

 

 

 

 

 

Saturday, February 12, 2011

Domestic Drama

Most people, when they hear we have domestic staff (aka - a maid and a nanny and two drivers) think we are living a life of luxury.  A cushy life.  Spoiled, pampered.

I'll be the first to admit that hired help definitely has its advantages.  But anyone that thinks it comes without complications is grossly misinformed.  To wit:

1)  We just moved to a new house.  When my wife brought her driver and our maid over for their first look, prior to our moving in, chaos ensued.  My wife was standing in the kitchen while her driver and the maid were touring the house and examining the master bedroom. Then our maid screamed.  Apparently, our driver saw ghosts in the master bedroom ("don't worry, they are nice ghosts", he assured us).  This led our maid to request that we hire her husband to be our gardener so she would not be alone in the house during the day.  Instead of hiring her husband, we'll have a blessing performed - both Christian and Muslim, to accommodate the different religions of our staff - to rid the house of ghosts.

2)  Our new house is in a neighborhood - Jeruk Purut - that an Indonesian film company made a horror movie about.  One of the largest cemeteries in the city is nearby, so it was a great location for a ghost story.  To get to our house, our staff will exit the bus at the cemetery.  From there, they either walk, or take an "ojek" (motorcycle taxi) to our house.  Of course, they refuse to walk, even though the distance is the same from their old bus stop to our old house.  They don't want to walk by the cemetery because the hantus (ghosts) will get them.  They requested a 'travel allowance' to pay for the ojek from the bus stop to our new house.  We either had to give them an additional $20/month or find new staff.  We opted for the former.

3)  Our third child (a son) is due in July.  Like we did with our first son, we'll deliver the new baby in Singapore.  Unlike the first time, family is unavailable to go with us.  Because we cannot have our current children unattended while I am at the hospital with my wife, and we have no family or friends in Singapore, we're trying to determine the logistics of child care during child birth.  Our first choice was to bring our nanny.  Of course, she's not an option.  Though she has a passport, her former employers still have it and won't give it to her.  They paid for it, so they feel they own it.  It doesnt' help that she didn't have the necessary paperwork to obtain the passport so they forged it so she could travel with them.  Our next choice was our former nanny.  Her husband won't allow her to nanny for us full time, but was open to a higher paid, 3 month assignment in Singapore.  She has a passport and is ready to go.  Unfortunately, the passport is in her cousin's possession.  Her cousin, who is also friends with our maid, is upset with her for referring our current nanny (who speaks English) instead of the cousin (who doesn't speak English) when our former nanny resigned.  Our maid has also indicated that she will resign if we hire our former nanny for the Singapore trip.  We can always bring our current maid, who is interested in the trip, but she doesn't have the energy of our nannies and, we have concerns about who would take care of the house, the laundry and my meals if she is in Singapore and I am in Jakarta.  (I know.  Many of you are saying "why can't you take care of it?"  I can, but it is cultural suicide for me to do so.  The same reason we have a maid in the first place.)


When you add domestic staff to your household, your home becomes a business.  You lose privacy, you lose familiarity, and you gain drama.  In my home I now need to deal with the same issues of personality differences, salary discussions, and performance discussions that I do in the workplace.

To a large degree, it isn't worth it.

Sunday, February 6, 2011

Bogor Botanical Gardens

Now that our daughter has a bike from Santa, we needed a place where she could ride it with abandon.  The Botanical Gardens in Bogor have great riding trails and scenery to match.

(The picture that looks like it is just rocks is an ant pulling a chunk of bread 5x it's size).

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Pictures with our Austrian visitor

Rafting, Rugby, and Roaring animals.